“Never be so busy as to
not think of others.” - Mother Theresa
Ellen doing outreach for her service site, SafeNet |
To me, showing mercy means showing compassion to everyone I encounter. It doesn’t matter if I’m having a bad day. I
need to remember that I can be a source of hope or a smile to someone who may
be struggling. This is especially important to remember in my interactions with
SafeNet clients. I never know if I will have ten minutes or ten months to build
a relationship with someone. During the first moments when I meet someone new,
I do my best to learn their name and to listen
to them. Listening is a way I can show clients that they are important and that
I care about them. Most of the time, the women I meet don’t know what it means
to be important or to be truly cared for. They have been mistreated and abused
by someone who they thought loved them. My interaction with them may be one
that helps them realize that they really are worth something and that there is nothing wrong with them for what happened to them.
Back to taking time to breathe...it is
important to remember to leave time in my day for breathing because I can
become so wrapped up in my work that I become consumed by it. That’s what
happens when you are truly passionate about what you do. The thing that can be
difficult about this is that the stories the clients tell are heartbreaking and
usually shocking. No matter how many times I hear a woman tell her story I
can’t help but pour my heart out to her and her children. Even though 1 in 4
women will experience an abusive relationship in her life, each story is
devastating. If I don’t remember to breathe and do something to take care of
myself, I could become angry or frustrated with today’s world. Luckily I love
to make music and art, and I love to write. These are great ways for me to
breathe and to remember that things aren’t always as bad as they seem, and that
there is always hope...even in the darkest of days!
Ellen Davis - SafeNet - Erie, PA
Ellen took a picture with Dora for the children she works with |