Adam (right) with his community in New York City |
That
being said, my job unfortunately comes with its fair share of disappointment as
well. This disappointment usually stems from having to inform people that they
cannot become a citizen or obtain the legal right to work, and is not something
that I’m particularly fond of. However, I understand that this is an essential
component of my job and I’ve recognized these moments as times when I’ve been
moved to feel genuine empathy, compassion, or dare I say, mercy, for another
person. One such example of this happened recently with a wonderfully sweet,
older woman that had come to the office in order to apply for citizenship. I
was immediately moved by her kindness and wanted nothing more than to help her
obtain citizenship and thereby fulfill what she had previously started before
her husband had passed away. Unfortunately though, after beginning the
application process with her, I was forced to advise her that she ought to wait
an additional two years before she could file her application. When I broke the
news to her, I could hear the sadness and resignation in her voice, as she was
devastated to find out she would have to wait even longer to become an American
citizen. But something amazing happened, and sensing the sadness and
disappointment in my own voice over the telephone, this kind, elderly woman
actually began comforting me and thanking me for trying to help her. I was shocked
that instead of dwelling on the unfortunate reality of her own situation, this
woman was comforting me and trying to alleviate whatever misplaced feelings of
guilt that I was having. Ultimately, this client would even go so far as to
bring me a container of sweets when she next came to the office as a token of
her gratitude.
I know
that this might seem like a rather mundane story, but I think it encapsulates
what this year has been about for me so far. In signing on to be a member of
Mercy Volunteer Corps and work at Catholic Migration Services, I was focused on
all the ways that I would be able to help those at the margins of our society.
However, I’ve come to realize how people such as the sweet, older, Greek woman
that came to the office are helping me and teaching me what it really means to
act in the spirit of Mercy.
Adam Augustyn - Catholic Migration Services - Brooklyn, NY